How do we embrace our sexuality? Infact, what exactly is embracing sexuality? Everyone may have their own perspective on this but for me it is all about embracing who I am; my needs, wants and sexual identity. It is understanding that I am continuously changing and I need to accept all the changes. Just like …
Never have I heard the topic of sex education being so readily and openly discussed by so many people. Of course rather than the current state of the curriculum everyone is talking about the Netflix series that is reportedly being viewed by 40million subscribers a month. Even if you haven’t seen it, you have almost …
Sexual fantasies are a normal, integral part of the daily lives. Fantasies can greatly range from sex with an intimate partner, group sex, loving sex and violent sex. Sexual fantasies are defined as, “any erotic or sexually arousing mental imagery that a person has while awake. It can be an elaborate story, or it can …
The brain, the body and the heart are often seen as the exclusive triad for expressing and experiencing sexuality and sensuality. Our brains bring the logic and ideas, building the beliefs and stories around what we enjoy, what is acceptable and what is not. Our hearts determine the level of love and care for ourselves …
Why the womb is an important area for your sexual fulfilment Read More »
The Dolly Parton 9-5 approach is changing, and the way that we manage our modern lives is on the move, so why doesn’t that mean that we can take this attitude forward into our sex lives? We understand the term sexual fluidity to be that sexuality is not fixed or concrete, but the thing is …
Sexual Fluidity: Why we don’t need to pick a side Read More »
We are wrapping up our final Talk of the Town for the year to discuss a very important topic: Mental Health and Sexuality. We understand that mental health issues don’t discriminate and it can affect anyone. Statistically, members of the LGBTQ community are more likely to suffer mental health problems and alcohol and substance misuse. …
The story behind: Talk of the Town, Mental Health and Sexuality Read More »
When we can talk openly about sex, we empower ourselves to live happy, healthy sex lives. That’s what we’ve always believed at Scarlet Ladies. Now, thanks to the #TalkSexChangeLives survey, we have the facts to prove it. Between July 15th and August 15th 2018, 555 women from around the world responded to our ground breaking …
“I’m from South London, and I come from a very ordinary South London family; my dad is from Bethnal Green originally – so I suppose you could call him a cockney! – and my mum is from East Dulwich. Yes, so a very straightforward, and very working class, kind of childhood. We had a really …
Did you know that trans women – particularly those of colour – were front and centre of the famous 1969 Stonewall riots that kick-started the LGBTQ+ liberation movement, in the United States and then internationally? Have you heard of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera? If you haven’t, don’t feel bad. It’s probably because the …
As Scarlet Ladies Chief Stigma Smasher I was there every step of the way during the creation of the #ITalkSex campaign. Initially we wanted 10 women as part of the campaign when we realised “Hang on, we are women with a story, too!” And so Jannette and I decided to include ourselves. One of my …
Sarah Beilfuss talks the future of female sexual empowerment Read More »