Meet Us

We are women & non-binary folks so we understand that first times are always daunting. If you want to know what you’re letting yourself in for, join our next Story Time or a book a 1:1.  Story times are special events where our members and team share their journey to empowerment, 1st hand experience at Sonder & Beam & what it meant for them.  No strings attached, just honest and frank conversation.

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Rudo 5

Rudo, Social Architect

Our species is beautifully varied and nuanced, yet the messaging of what is ‘accepted’ is rigid and conformist, which is incredibly harmful. My identity like so many others is not deemed worthy by the mainstream, so a space to be seen, to speak and to be listened to is invaluable.

Meet Rudo

I’m a queer human female who has major aspirations of becoming an octopus because I find this body and brain too limiting; 4 limbs, really? When I’m not dreaming about a Disney-themed life under the sea, I am attempting my closest impression of a human. I do that through my role as the protector of the S&B community, (they are all just as cute as a button!) I am also the  Fashion Editor for The KOL Social Magazine, a quarterly publication aimed at all diverse groups because representation matters.

Read my full bio [here]

 I am very excited to meet you. Here are my upcoming Meetups. Can't make it book a 1:1 with me get in contact [here]

Meet Rudo
Jannette 4

Jannette, Chief Pleasure Seeker

My mission in life is to create a space where women & non-binary folks can speak freely, learn to understand themselves and others, and make their own free choices when it comes to how they live, how they identify, and what they choose to do with their bodies: without fear of violence, stigma or shame.

Meet Jannette

I grew up in a very traditional African Christian background where discussing sex had so much shame and stigma. I lost my virginity at a pretty young age but I had no idea about sex. My first job was in a popular sex shop and my eyes were opened: I met women who embraced their sexuality, women who were curious, women who were ashamed to be there, basically all walks of life. In that job, I learned that sex and sexuality is a part of of us: we all pretty much have a sex life, regardless of how little or much you we getting it. And I learned that understanding and accepting who we are, sexually, is a really important part of learning to be ourselves and living lives that fulfil and satisfy us. Read my full bio [here] 
I am very excited to meet you.
Book a 1:1 with me get in contact [here]
Meet Jannette

There’s no such thing as a ‘typical’ Sonder & Beam member! We asked some of the wonderful members in our community to introduce themselves, tell us what makes them tick – and explain what being a Sonder & Beam member means for them.

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