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A unique community of sex-positive women and trusted female-centric brands.

We host frank and honest  conversations to better understand and embrace our bodies and our sexuality.


Most Popular

Community Membership
Off The Record Events
Supportive community
Discounted Event Tickets

£20 monthly/ 220 annual

Best Value For Events

All Access Membership
All Community Benefits
Exclusive access to Scarlet Circle
Free access to ALL events

From £50 monthly / 550 annual

Pro membership options available for female centric brands & businesses.

Get a taster

Want to learn more about our Sonder & Beam community and whether it’s for you? Join us at our next Open House at S&B Home, 23 Paul Street to find out for yourself:

Why Join Us

Find the courage to invest in yourself, and you will help other women to do the same.

Our global community gives every woman, everywhere, a safe and supportive space to make connections, build friendships, grow in confidence and benefit from a unique personal and professional support network.

Join us to become part of something bigger: become the woman you were born to be.


Included in your membership

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We believe in the power of sharing ideas and experiences to change perceptions around female sexuality. Our events provide a safe and confidential space where women can speak authentically, share experiences and inspiration. 

Off The Record

From picnics and pub trips to exhibitions and late-night clubs or bars, Off the Record weekend socials make space for you to network, continue the conversations or start new ones.

Relax, chill out, and be inspired in the company of your sisters. Discover new places and new sides to yourself that you had forgotten were there: find answers to the questions you never dared ask; push your boundaries or just have some fun: whatever happens off the record, stays off the record! 

Perks and More

Safe, ethical and fun: our community offers the very best of female-owned, sex-positive brands. 

Feel good in your mind, body and soul with our community of trusted products and services for you and your partner – all offering exclusive perks and discounts for members.

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