We are the only peer-to-peer network empowering ordinary women & non-binary people to understand and own their sexuality.

How we work


Real Life Meetups

Our diverse, member-run groups provide a safe and confidential space where women & non-binary people can speak authentically, share experiences and inspiration.

Connect with like-minded people

We believe in the power of sharing ideas and experiences to change perceptions around sexuality.

Explore our community

Feel good in your mind, body and soul with our community of trusted products and services for you and your partner – all offering exclusive perks and discounts for members. 

New eBook

Launching 15th November

Overcoming Trauma

Featured Groups


Sex Positive Founders


Body Stories

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Find the courage to invest in yourself, and you will help others to do the same.

Our global community gives every woman & non-binary person, everywhere, a safe and supportive space to make connections, build friendships, grow in confidence and benefit from a unique personal support network.

Join us to become part of something bigger: become the person you were born to be.

*Ends December 30th 2021


Meet Our Members



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“The best thing about it is being exposed to and learning from amazing, interesting and sex positive women.

“S&B is an essential part of your journey as a woman, at any stage of your life. We need to love and take care of ourselves first, and S&B creates a positive and safe space to learn about and explore your sexuality.

“As a society today, we need to work together to normalise the conversation around sexuality, minimise shaming and encourage pleasure!”

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Alyssa Henley


“The best thing about it is the opportunity to meet lots of inspirational women. Every woman needs Sonder & Beam in their life because that way, we can talk openly about the issues that concern us without having have everything mansplained or solved for us.




“I never would have predicted how much Sonder and Beam have enriched my life. Before joining the group I had no idea how varied the discussions and talks we have would be (so far topics have included managing your finances, systemic biases in scientific research, pelvic pain disorders and the myriad different cultural experience of many of our members and guests). Having a group of womxn who I I can trust to always be supportive and non-judgemental has been invaluable to me and I hope to continue being part of the group for a long time to come and to welcome many more womxn to this incredible community.”

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