For all of my life monogamy was the only relationship type. To be fair, that is all I knew. There was no other choice and people who had more than one partner were just ‘weird’ and ‘sinners’ Cheaters were evil narcissists who left a trail of broken hearts because they wanted to. As the years …
After such a long break I am excited to announce the return of our first group, Sex-positive Founder meetups. Listen to inspirational stories, learn something new and build new connections at founders meetup. A group designed for sex positive founders & professionals within the S&B community. We aim to support you in your journey to …
Sonder & Beam returns! I am so excited to bring back the community and I hope it will be even better than before. This 2021 I took a break as the pandemic was seriously kicking my butt and everyone else’s. I knew I would never close down but I had to seriously think about where …
We are wrapping up 2020 and I can say it has been a very interesting year for us all. I am glad to say that we have made it and have survived 2020. With a few changes to our structure, community and operations we have managed to hold on. Thank you to all the members …
We want to continuously reward our community for supporting us so for every act you make in your journey and to support us we will support you back. As part of Beam Rewards you receive a reward every time you take part in the community. From event feedback to attending events, referring a friend to …
Having passed the midway point of the year and officially in the summer months our events in July will inspire, make you think and as usual relate with other women. We discuss sex postivity on social media and how to achieve it in a sex negative platform, members join together to support each other in …
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The Pleasure Parlour is an exclusive area, reserved just for our members! We’ve partnered with some incredible brands to provide our community with new offers, competitions and benefits to continue your transformation. Available to all members at Sonder & Beam you can rest assured that each brand has been selected for their values, being inclusive, female …
As we develop our community we want to ensure you stay on track with your own transformation and get the most out of your time with us. Whether it is your personal or professional journey we want to keep you motivated to keep moving forward. As a community we have seen plenty of women completely …
The Sonder & Beam online community is our very own sex positive social community for women. Be part of a safe and positive space where you can make new found friendships, embrace who you are, support and empower other women through your acts and words. As a member use this space to share what really …
To ensure you stay connected and continue with your transformation journey we have taken all of our events digital. To make your experience easier here is our guide to help you use our digital platform. Our webinar platform Click meeting unless otherwise stated. May vary for Off The Records Browser: We have found Chrome to …
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Ready for more? A big part of the Scarlet Ladies experience is the community we create together. At all of our Discuss and Develop events, you’ll connect with like-minded women, hand-picked events brands and brand partners, ready to support you as you go exploring. Discover sex-positive London in the safe company of your Scarlet sisterhood and our trusted partners.
Explore London, Scarlet Style! Led by Rudo Mashongamhende, our all-new weekend events programme invites you to join us for a Scarlet tour of London. Open to all Scarlet Ladies everywhere, these fun and fabulous socials are offered completely free for members: you will only need to pay for any venue entry fee and drinks. From picnics and pub trips to exhibitions and late-night clubs or bars, Off the Record weekend socials make space for you to continue the conversations from 23 Paul Street or start new ones. Relax, chill out, and be inspired in the company of your Scarlet sisters. Discover new places and new sides to yourself that you had forgotten were there: find answers to the questions you never dared ask; push your boundaries or just have some fun: whatever happens off the record, stays off the record! Get ready to experience the best of sex-positive London with our group of likeminded Scarlet explorers.
Continue your journey and grow in confidence with our interactive workshops. Develop events are available exclusively to Scarlet Ladies members, and are designed for those who are already comfortable speaking openly about sexual experiences and sexuality, or who have been members of Scarlet Ladies for at least 3 months.
Our self development workshop series invites you to spend time really getting to know the most important person in your life: yes, we mean YOU. Expect a mix of group discussion, personal reflection and self-development exercises designed by Scarlet Ladies’ lead coach Sarah. We explore each of our FIERCE values – Freedom, Inspiration, Esteem, Respect, Courage and Enjoyment, through two consecutive monthly workshops, limited to just 20 participants: attend them individually, or sign up for them all for a full year of sexual development and growth.
This is sex education like you never had it before: our straight-talking ‘How-To’ sessions take a head-on approach to all the questions you never dared ask at school! Expect eye-opening insights from London’s best sex educators: at our members-only workshops, you’ll discover a world of tips, tricks and skills guaranteed to transform your world in the bedroom (and beyond …)
Your Scarlet Ladies journey starts here.Suitable for everyone, all are welcome to speak out and share their views, or simply absorb the perspectives and wisdom of the room. Discuss events come in all shapes and sizes, from big panel discussions through to intimate coaching sessions and informal socials. Some Discuss events are open to non-members.
Open to non-members, our panel discussions bring together real women from different backgrounds, including professional therapists, sex workers and ‘ordinary’ women, to talk openly about key topics that affect women everywhere. Expect no-holds-barred conversations in an environment that is safe and supportive, as we lift the lid on different aspects of female sexuality to break down the barriers of stigma and shame.
Real inspiration from FIERCE women: in Scarlet Ladies’ answer to TED talks, our speakers join us to change attitudes and change lives by challenging prejudices around female sexuality head-on. Our FIERCE speakers inspire and educate, by sharing ideas, knowledge and experience on topics relating to female sexuality. Non-members are welcome.
Small and intimate, each monthly Scarlet Circle session is available exclusively to members, with opportunities for up to 4 ladies to seek support from the group each month and a further 6 to attend each session. Expect honest feedback; brainstorming, cheerleading and much-needed truth-telling. We suggest that you join us for a minimum of two consecutive monthly sessions, so that we can support each other with the best possible mutual understanding and advice.
Sharing confidences; sharing the journey and inviting other women like you to benefit from the lessons you’ve learned along the way: At Home With … members’ only events go right to the heart of what the Scarlet Ladies community is all about. Scarlet Ladies members take the floor for an intimate night of conversation; share stories; and take questions from the group about the experiences, expertise or events that have made her the FIERCE woman she is today.
Our FIERCE Talks change attitudes and change lives. Guided by our founding values of Freedom, Inspiration, Esteem, Respect, Courage and Enjoyment, FIERCE Talks challenge prejudices around female sexuality head-on. Every month we bring you a FIERCE woman to inspire and educate you by sharing her ideas, knowledge and experience on a topic relating to female sexuality. We believe in the power of talking to help women stand together to challenge negative attitudes, and transform the lives of women from all walks of life.