Founder of Sonder & Beam.
‘Healthy relationships’ feels like the new buzz now on social media. Everyone, I mean everyone is sharing their thoughts on what is a healthy relationship. Just like everything else on social media once it catches on it is like wildfire and it spreads. Which of course creates new myths or the reemergence of old ideas. …
How do we embrace our sexuality? Infact, what exactly is embracing sexuality? Everyone may have their own perspective on this but for me it is all about embracing who I am; my needs, wants and sexual identity. It is understanding that I am continuously changing and I need to accept all the changes. Just like …
For all of my life monogamy was the only relationship type. To be fair, that is all I knew. There was no other choice and people who had more than one partner were just ‘weird’ and ‘sinners’ Cheaters were evil narcissists who left a trail of broken hearts because they wanted to. As the years …
After such a long break I am excited to announce the return of our first group, Sex-positive Founder meetups. Listen to inspirational stories, learn something new and build new connections at founders meetup. A group designed for sex positive founders & professionals within the S&B community. We aim to support you in your journey to …
Sonder & Beam returns! I am so excited to bring back the community and I hope it will be even better than before. This 2021 I took a break as the pandemic was seriously kicking my butt and everyone else’s. I knew I would never close down but I had to seriously think about where …
We are wrapping up 2020 and I can say it has been a very interesting year for us all. I am glad to say that we have made it and have survived 2020. With a few changes to our structure, community and operations we have managed to hold on. Thank you to all the members …
We are switching things up in 2021 to take a step further to being a member curated community. Our events have always been created from pitches from our community. A few weeks ago I had a virtual sit down with our Beam rewards members on what we need as a community, what they like and …
Are you a Sonder & Beam member that want to share our community to the world whilst earning extra income? Do you believe that every person deserves to be sexually empowered? Do you want to share our community with the world, empowering one person at a time? Sonder & Beam needs members who want to …
We caught up with Ruth Ramsay to talk about her inspiration behind her upcoming column Sex Coaching, Stripped. Award-winning striptease artist turned erotic empowerment coach, Ruth Ramsay, found her way to sexual empowerment and erotic confidence through over a decade of disrobing on-stage. Performing to audiences of varied ages, gender identities and degrees of physical abilities/disabilities, in …
We are bringing back our Open House nights for women to find out more about us but with a twist. Available to women across the Globe, our Open House events are now digital. So regardless of where you are you can attend. With a maximum of 4 women per slot we will discuss the community …
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Ready for more? A big part of the Scarlet Ladies experience is the community we create together. At all of our Discuss and Develop events, you’ll connect with like-minded women, hand-picked events brands and brand partners, ready to support you as you go exploring. Discover sex-positive London in the safe company of your Scarlet sisterhood and our trusted partners.
Explore London, Scarlet Style! Led by Rudo Mashongamhende, our all-new weekend events programme invites you to join us for a Scarlet tour of London. Open to all Scarlet Ladies everywhere, these fun and fabulous socials are offered completely free for members: you will only need to pay for any venue entry fee and drinks. From picnics and pub trips to exhibitions and late-night clubs or bars, Off the Record weekend socials make space for you to continue the conversations from 23 Paul Street or start new ones. Relax, chill out, and be inspired in the company of your Scarlet sisters. Discover new places and new sides to yourself that you had forgotten were there: find answers to the questions you never dared ask; push your boundaries or just have some fun: whatever happens off the record, stays off the record! Get ready to experience the best of sex-positive London with our group of likeminded Scarlet explorers.
Continue your journey and grow in confidence with our interactive workshops. Develop events are available exclusively to Scarlet Ladies members, and are designed for those who are already comfortable speaking openly about sexual experiences and sexuality, or who have been members of Scarlet Ladies for at least 3 months.
Our self development workshop series invites you to spend time really getting to know the most important person in your life: yes, we mean YOU. Expect a mix of group discussion, personal reflection and self-development exercises designed by Scarlet Ladies’ lead coach Sarah. We explore each of our FIERCE values – Freedom, Inspiration, Esteem, Respect, Courage and Enjoyment, through two consecutive monthly workshops, limited to just 20 participants: attend them individually, or sign up for them all for a full year of sexual development and growth.
This is sex education like you never had it before: our straight-talking ‘How-To’ sessions take a head-on approach to all the questions you never dared ask at school! Expect eye-opening insights from London’s best sex educators: at our members-only workshops, you’ll discover a world of tips, tricks and skills guaranteed to transform your world in the bedroom (and beyond …)
Your Scarlet Ladies journey starts here.Suitable for everyone, all are welcome to speak out and share their views, or simply absorb the perspectives and wisdom of the room. Discuss events come in all shapes and sizes, from big panel discussions through to intimate coaching sessions and informal socials. Some Discuss events are open to non-members.
Open to non-members, our panel discussions bring together real women from different backgrounds, including professional therapists, sex workers and ‘ordinary’ women, to talk openly about key topics that affect women everywhere. Expect no-holds-barred conversations in an environment that is safe and supportive, as we lift the lid on different aspects of female sexuality to break down the barriers of stigma and shame.
Real inspiration from FIERCE women: in Scarlet Ladies’ answer to TED talks, our speakers join us to change attitudes and change lives by challenging prejudices around female sexuality head-on. Our FIERCE speakers inspire and educate, by sharing ideas, knowledge and experience on topics relating to female sexuality. Non-members are welcome.
Small and intimate, each monthly Scarlet Circle session is available exclusively to members, with opportunities for up to 4 ladies to seek support from the group each month and a further 6 to attend each session. Expect honest feedback; brainstorming, cheerleading and much-needed truth-telling. We suggest that you join us for a minimum of two consecutive monthly sessions, so that we can support each other with the best possible mutual understanding and advice.
Sharing confidences; sharing the journey and inviting other women like you to benefit from the lessons you’ve learned along the way: At Home With … members’ only events go right to the heart of what the Scarlet Ladies community is all about. Scarlet Ladies members take the floor for an intimate night of conversation; share stories; and take questions from the group about the experiences, expertise or events that have made her the FIERCE woman she is today.
Our FIERCE Talks change attitudes and change lives. Guided by our founding values of Freedom, Inspiration, Esteem, Respect, Courage and Enjoyment, FIERCE Talks challenge prejudices around female sexuality head-on. Every month we bring you a FIERCE woman to inspire and educate you by sharing her ideas, knowledge and experience on a topic relating to female sexuality. We believe in the power of talking to help women stand together to challenge negative attitudes, and transform the lives of women from all walks of life.