We are a community supporting one another towards a better world for all of us.



We host frank and open conversations about female and non-binary sexuality and sexual experience, because we believe that our sexual identity is an important part of who we are. We don’t say that life is all about sex – but we do say that whilst one part of our identities remains shrouded in silence, we will never find true equality, freedom and liberty.

Find and build groups to meet new people, learn new things, find support, get out of your comfort zone, and empower people together.

A to Z of Kink/BDSM & Consensual Non-Monogamy

In this group, we will cover a wide range of topics relating to kink, BDSM, power dynamics, consensual non-monogamy, and fetishes.

Body Stories

We'll be looking at what embodiment is, and how it relates to both working with trauma as well as engaging with our bliss, power, and creativity.

Queer Support & Allyship

In this group I would like invite queer folk and allies to share LGBTQ+ experiences. This is a safe space to learn, grow and support each other.

Peeps of Colour

This a group for anyone who comes from a heritage that is considered non-white. Those who have a mixed white heritage are very welcome.


Why Us

In a world where so many women and non-binary people still suffer sexual anxiety, violence or abuse, we talk to share our similarities and our differences, our complexities and our struggles, our journey and our triumphs. At Sonder & Beam there is no ‘us’ and ‘them’: as people, we are all equal and we are all unique. 

“I never would have predicted how much Sonder and Beam have enriched my life. Before joining the group I had no idea how varied the discussions and talks we have would be (so far topics have included managing your finances, systemic biases in scientific research, pelvic pain disorders and the myriad different cultural experience of many of our members and guests). Having a group of womxn who I I can trust to always be supportive and non-judgemental has been invaluable to me and I hope to continue being part of the group for a long time to come and to welcome many more womxn to this incredible community.”



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